Your Tummy Mommy

Hey Spud,
Today is your Tummy Mommy's birthday and so I thought I would dedicate today's post to telling you a little bit about her and my feelings towards her.

First, to say that I am thankful for your Tummy Mommy really doesn't do justice to the amount of gratitude and awe I feel for the woman. She is going through something that I can't even wrap my brain around, all because she loves you so much and wants the absolute best for you.

Next, I admire your mommy's honesty and bravery so much. When you are older and ask questions, I will explain to you more about how invasive the adoption process is. On our end, Daddy and I had to have background checks and interviews and doctors appointments. It was kind of strange having to open up to complete strangers about our pasts. But nothing we went through compares to the type of stuff your Tummy Mommy has had to talk about with bunches of strangers. And yet, she has been amazing at talking about stuff that is hard in order to assure that you get the best quality care that you deserve.

When we talked to her on the phone the other day, I was struck by what a good mom she is to your other siblings. She picked Daddy & I for you because she wants the best for all of you and right now she just can't give all of you everything you deserve. While there may come a time where her decision is hard to understand, I want you to always remember that she is making the right decision for all of you.

I respect your Tummy Mommy & Daddy so much and I hope that you will do the same.